Before you judge others make sure that you’re perfect.

People are always quick to judge without knowing the reason behind.

You always say to yourself that “I am different”, but why are you acting like everyone.

You are pointing fingers at people you know nothing about.

You are laughing at other people’s scars.

Telling the whole world who’s wearing an original and who’s wearing “fake”, where are you feeling it?

Discussing other people’s salaries just because of they’re working for small companies —what are you going to reap?

What are you going to gain by judging and demotivating others.

Why are you so judgmental?

I am pretty sure that you wouldn’t like it if you were to be judged and treated the way you do to others. It should stop now!

Listen here, No one is perfect.

Not everyone was raised like you, with everything they need in front of them like you. Not everyone can afford what you can afford.

People are at war fighting to change their family situations.

Now before you judge that person make sure that you walk in their shoes, get to know them. There’s usually a good reason people are the way they are. It will shock you.

Have a wonderful day🦋✨

Don’t sell “yourself” for money. You worth more than that.

Thinking that success is only based on money is one of the main reasons why so many people live a very competitive worldly lifestyle.

This often lead them to turn their backs on so many precious things in life in the name of chasing money.

Nowadays it’s like this :

NO 🙅‍♀️+ money 💴 💰 = YES ✅

Note that everything has a price, but not everything should be for sale. Don’t lose your image and dignity for money.

‪It doesn’t matter how far you go in life or how much material success you achieve. What is really important is how many people’s lives you touch.‬

I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has had to overcome while trying to succeed —it’s not about the destination, but it’s about the journey.

Basically it’s the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty, and persistence.

Don’t sell yourself short. You worth so much more than “money” and “materialistic things” —don’t forget your crown.

Believe in yourself, work a little harder, be patient and God will provide.

Have a delightful day 🦋✨

Let go of things that do not serve you.

No one has ever stopped a person from scoring an own goal. But it shocks everyone in the end.

If they’re trying to stop you.

If they’re fighting against you.

If they’re whispering and hating it.

Know that you’re tracking well.

Note that you’re attacking and you’re about to score a lifetime goal.

They hate success, but they like it when you’re digging your own grave.

They’ll laugh and look down on you for going to church (building up your spiritual life), they’ll make fun of you for always being indoors studying (self-care and building your character), opening a small business in the streets (chasing your dreams), but they’ll SUPPORT you when you want to buy a bottle of booze and to add side chick/nigga (to destroy your career).

The thing is they’ll help you start smoking, drinking and cheating, but once you’re stuck —they’ll turn it against you and gossip about you. The moment you become addicted to what they’ve been feeding you, they put you in the ditch.

Addicted to smoking no one buys for you.

Addicted to alcohol they’ll ask “when is your turn to buy?” and then sidestep you.

the moment you get caught with your side chick/nigga they’re nowhere to be found. They don’t want to be involved and they don’t want to look bad to your partner.

They won’t stop you from overspending — they want to see you go down, not up. Remember that.

So you might as well do the right thing. Stop pleasing “frenemies”. Stop doing things that will bring regrets and shame in your life. Do things that will make you proud someday. Give up things that are not adding value to your life.

Have a productive day 🦋✨

Be grateful for everything you have.

If you woke up breathing, congratulations! You have another chance.

Life is all about moving forward not backwards. So learn to count your blessings not your problems

You woke up. Someone didn’t.

You have abilities. Others have disabilities.

You do have clothes to wear. Some people are wearing the same torn clothes everyday.

You have shelter. Some people are homeless.

You have running water. Someone doesn’t.

You have food to eat. Someone is standing at the robots begging for something to eat.

Life is good, it doesn’t have to be perfect. Some people are happy with less than what you have.

You don’t have to save anything for a special occasion. Being “alive” is the special occasion. Live!

Be thankful for the little things you have and God is going to bless you with more.

Don’t take what you have for granted. God tests us with small things to see if we’re ready to handle the big things.

Have a delightful day 🦋✨

Don’t assume, ask.

One of the worst things anybody can do is “assume”

Rather than assuming, try a massive technique called “asking” —that’s the beginning of receiving.

A – Always

S – Seek

K – knowledge

Do not fear lack of knowledge, but fear false knowledge. ASSUMPTIONS.

False knowledge is far worse than ignorance, especially when it’s used against someone. It’s best to have all facts before you condemn someone for something you’re unsure about.

Don’t use what you heard, but what you saw. Facts!

Assumptions and rumors are the terminates of relationships and friendships.

To assume is to limit the mind to one way of viewing, when by nature our perceptions should be infinite.

Do your own research. Socialize with people. Read books and ask relevant questions. Enlighten yourself. It’s better to know than to assume.

If you want to be powerful, then you need to start educating yourself. Quit assuming. Allow yourself to grow.

When you know better, you do better.

Have a prosperous day 🦋✨

Use your time wisely.

Time.

 

If you knew when is your last day on earth you wouldn’t be running after people who don’t love you back.

 

Because your footsteps are limited on earth focus only what adds value to your life chase the people who appreciate your presence.

 

If your words were counted every day you would mind what you say and go for what’s relevant/appropriate.

 

Talking foul about other people, spreading silly rumours, gossiping and lying wouldn’t be in the picture. You’d surely speak that which builds.

 

Why stress yourself about who doesn’t like you?

 

Why overthink stuff that doesn’t grow you or add value?

 

Why waste time thinking about people who hurt you, instead of thinking and strategizing on the future.

 

So work on self-discipline and start believing that everything is a gift.

 

The hidden truth in what you’ve just read is.

 

Your time here on EARTH is limited and you’ll never know when is your end time.

 

Take note that life is like a game of soccer.

 

You come in the field to prove yourself, but there’s still a coach and fans to impress. You can’t play all positions, you have your own duty in the field. As much as you’d like to score sometimes you have to pass it to the one near the nets looking at the possibilities. Even if you play forward, but sometimes you have to go back and defend. Even if you’re a defender when you see a gap you score. You get injured it’s either you carry on, or you get substituted to go heal, or you can’t play soccer anymore. That happens if you’re a victim, but if you’re the one who tackles and injures others you get a yellow warning card reminding (to caution you) you that you have to think about others too and if you play rough again you get RED card taking you out of the field since you don’t respect the game. 

 

So life is similar to that. God is watching you and people are noticing you, but you’re here for you. As you interact with people be kind and you’ll attract kindness –but if you are cruel to others, then you’ll attract the same energy.

 

Note to self, not everyone  that comes into your life has good intentions as some come only to break you therefore watch out.

 

Respect life or God will take you out of the field (Earth).

But don’t forget that God is watching over your life.

Respect yourself, respect people and respect God. 

Respect time and do what you were born to do.

Have a productive day. 🦋✨

 

Be you, before it’s too late.

We are here to formulate a bigger picture.

Bigger picture — God’s plan.

Pieces of the puzzle — us/we.

Pieces of the puzzle cannot formulate the bigger picture if they’re all the same.

We are completely different, but we fit together perfectly. We must fit in and do our part in order for the larger picture to form clearly.

Hence it’s important to be you, not please anybody, to use your unique talents, to embrace your uniqueness and to please only the Creator.

Like your fingers with different lengths, sizes, duties, but same goal. To “hold” on.

We all are fingers, we serve different purpose, we are different, but at the end of the day we came to grip, hold, tighten, wave, touch, count (unity is God’s plan) we receive the same amount of energy and blood. We just have to play our roles.

The God’s plan is what’s puts us together —if you remove pride you’ll see that we all need each other.

So without the real “you” God’s plan is weakened.

Play your part and do what you were born to do. Stop faking it. Stop changing to please people.You’re weakening the plan of God.

Have a prosperous day 🦋✨

Allow God to transform you.

Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.

Don’t live the same day over and over again and call that a life. Life is about evolving mentally, spiritually, and emotionally.

Never stop dreaming, never stop believing, never give up, never stop trying, and never stop learning.

Your situation may be a little tougher. People around you may look down on you. Some won’t hangout with you just because of your current status.

You may think it is because you don’t have style or enough money, but trust me if I say God is removing them on purpose.

They may think they’re running away from you. Actually they’re giving you space to be you —believe that you’re about to succeed.

Find yourself. Even if it means being alone, alone doesn’t mean lonely. Don’t follow the world. Be a leader and create your followers.

Have a productive day. ♥️✨

Embrace your uniqueness.

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Be Unique 

You don’t have to correlate yourself with anyone else. YOU ARE your own worst enemy.

Nobody is walking your unique path. You wake up every morning with YOU, your traits, circumstances, choices, and history.

Don’t worry about THEM, but the one in the mirror. If you follow the crowd you’re likely to get lost in it. 

Fingerprints and the identity number will never lie that there’s no one youer than YOU.

YOU ARE unique, strong, beautiful, and awesome.

YOU ARE fearfully and wonderfully made.

God has given you unique abilities, talents, and gifts. Embrace*

(Be)lieve in (You)rself

Show others who you are.

Have a prosperous day

Be kind to people on your way up, you’ll need them on your way down.

 

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The only wisdom we can hope to acquire is the wisdom of humility and benevolence.

 

If you want others to respect you, you have to respect others first.

 

Yes! we say confidence is important, but you should know that ego is bad too. Humility and humbleness are ways of building your confidence.

 

Learn to be nice to those you meet on the way up because you will meet them on the way down.

 

As much as you can see progress in your life that doesn’t mean you’re doing it for other people. You are doing it for yourself. 

 

You are in a competition with your own self. Stop thinking that everyone is your competitor. Also take a glance at what or who you’re stepping on, on your way to success because one day the tables will turn and you will need the same people you were stepping on. 

 

You need to give up pride and ego. We are all special in the eyes of God. Start treating people with respect no matter their race, gender, profession or colour etc. because in the end we all need each other. Put self-applauding in the ditch. 

The problem is pride, but the answer is humility. 

Have a tremendous day