Make sure that you don’t lose yourself trying to be accepted, but be you and do you.

When you decide to change your life for the better. You start losing your loved ones, friends and things around you. Guess what! You don’t have to chase after it or them because it’s what held you back in the first place. At the end of the day you can’t choose who to lose, but

Don’t blame other people for disappointing you, but blame yourself for expecting too much from them.

You always end up disappointed if you think people will do for you as you do for them. The fact is not everyone has the same heart as you.  There’s a huge difference between them and you. Not everything will go as you expect in your life, this is why you need to drop expectations

Failure is the key to success; each mistake teaches us something.

In the end, it’s not going to matter how many mistakes you made, but how you used them to make you a stronger person. Mistakes are proof that you are trying. Yes! You make mistakes, but you’re not your mistakes. Nobody is allowed to blame you and you are not allowed to blame yourself either,

Work hard for what you want because it won’t come to you without a fight.

You cannot predict life, but you can prepare for it. The main key is working hard everyday. Also questioning yourself daily if what you’re doing is repelling or attracting your success. Be wise enough to distinguish between what you need and what you want. Working hard for something we don’t care about is called stress,

Stop trying to please everyone, you’re important too.

Don’t do things to please other people.  Don’t look good on the outside, but dying  on the inside. The worst feeling is when something is killing you inside and you have to act like you don’t care or everything is just fine. Trust me if I say it is  not a requirement to set yourself

You don’t owe anyone a justification for your values and your priorities.

You got to stop treating people like you owe them something.  Be you and do you. Don’t waste time explaining yourself to people because they only hear what they want to hear.  You are allowed to terminate unhealthy relationships and walk away from people who hurt you. Cutting off some people doesn’t mean you hate

Make Yourself Proud Of Yourself.

Decide today that you won’t give up on your dreams and desires.  Keep pressing forward, believing that you are anointed and empowered. Trust that everything happens for a reason and everything that is done with a good heart will work out in the end. Do not forget that hard work can beat talent if talent

Respecting other people’s feelings is important.

We  have to respect other people’s feelings.  Something might mean nothing to you, but it could mean the world to other people. Treat everyone with kindness and respect. The best way to respect the feelings of the other people is by listening to  them with empathy and non-judgmental way so that they can share their feelings

Appreciate every little thing life has to offer.

Appreciate even small things people do for you. The most attractive thing to me is effort.  The greeting, the early reply and/or a call showing that someone wants to make me a part of their day.  I don’t care if the broadcast message, motivational video or image you shared with me has previously been shared

Don’t let your past define you. Transform your mistakes into lessons.

The only two judges of your character that are important are your conscience and your Creator. You cannot change your past. It was a learning experience, but you can start now and make a change.  Don’t give people a reason or permission to laugh or blackmail you of your past mistakes. Just learn from your